Sober Living going Hay Wild and Children Dying from Drug Overdose in SOBER LIVING!


Here is the full link…

Parents, please…do not send your children there….

Elizabeth Vargis, Good Morning America ABC news Boldly promoting Alcoholics Anonymous on National TV and Breaking AA beloved traditions!

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Sad to see her promote AA through her medium …ABC NEWS, Good Morning America and the rest …

I just watched this clip and it was pretty sickening to watch a grown educated woman , unabashedly promoting the sick dangerous cult of alcoholics anonymous. I wonder who convinced her to do this. OMG Now for sure the whole world will be watching…Elisabeth I don’t think so . ABC viewers, anti AA members are gagging at your interview,….See we were once brainwashed, some were lucky enough to see through the Bullshit. I wish you could have gone to Smart Recovery or WFS or MM or Practical recovery where you would have been given a scientific option. SO now you are stuck going to AA forever because they are telling you that you re broken and have a spirit malady…are you aware that this hogwash was written by Bill W in 1935 who never researched or vetted this crap?

Maybe this is the work of Lauri Dhue or some other crack pot stepper who boldly promotes AA. Is Elixabeth aware that women have been murdered and raped by AA men for years. That sexual predators and pedohiles are sitting with her holding her hand in AA meetings….or does Elizabeth attend those “special ” star studed meetings…hmmm I wonder…

I cant wait till my film is done and the world really see the shit hole of a place that AA is, how dangerous it is and that there are better saner options !!!!For a real normal woman.


Attention Lawyers and Judges- How Can Sex offenders and violent offenders be sent to Alcoholics Anonymous when they know there are no safety policies in place?


How is this happing?


Don’y they know…no one is on charge in an AA meeting.

Why do they ask about sponsors. Sponsors are nobody. They could be a control freak and loser and why would our courts even tell someone they have to go to AA or go to Jail.

Im in Ohio and I am so shocked by what I was just told in my interview …being forced to go to a place where the judges are also sending rapists and pedophiles.

Alcoholics Anonymous, Fort Collins, Colorado…Cleveland, Ohio -When AA Doesn’t Fit… What Options do you have?

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This is what an AA meeting looked like when Bill Wilson posed for his first big marketing plug in one of the biggest Magazines of the times …thanks to Marty Mann the PR genius with all the sweet hookups and …trust me she know all of the High Society and she connected Bill Wilson with all of these people. AA would not  have existed without Marty Mann. Here are some other pics to remind us of how medicine use to be

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If you are feeling that maybe AA is very outdated and toxic…you are not alone.


fear imageImagine using this puppy for medicine today…so why are 95% of rehabs using AA from 1935 and religious cultish pop psych lay person groups for a mental health issues or a behavioral issue????Why why why…

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So why has AA held such a strong hold on alcohol and drug over use problems in our society. If a government can control and weaken its people they might like that. AA is a philosophy and culture that dis empowers its members at every level. Think about it.

Join the many who are Leaving AA and trying sane alternatives to that wacky dangerous culture. Remember cigarettes were once good for you! There’s always Smart Recovery online.

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Smart has a chat 24/7…I like this option. The other alternatives that are free.

I hear there is one young peoples Smart Meeting. Sorry no perverts allowed …smart has rules about who can come to a minor’s meeting unlike AA …

I don’t know about Cleveland  Ohio …I will post those options when I get there. Also , if you want to start an SOS meeting just contact Jim Christopher and he will send you a starter kit.

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Moderation Management …I suggest if you have been in AA to deprogram first throughly before you …cheers! 🙂

Harm Reduction, Hams Network see Ken Anderson for this option, and The Sincliar Method with the use of Naltrexone.

There is a great resource page on with every book you could imagine to read to help you.

Just a few more tips…

You are not broken.

No one labels themselves in any other newer modern program.

You have no disease.

No other program is religious, none have sponsors. none require you to come for LIFE!!!

Happy New Year to all !

happy new year picA big happy new years to all  and thank you all for blogging here with me.

Much success has come about this year to expose AA and its dangerous ways.

  1. I attended Hotdoc’s in Toronto in April 2013 and pitched my movie to many people who were unaware of the dangers in AA. In essence, telling the International Film Community about the truth regarding AA. 
  2. Gabrielle Glaser’s book “Her Best Kept Secret” came out  in July 2013 and I was a chapter in it, where all of my work in AA and trying to make it safer was documented.
  3. We were on National TV “Katie Couric” in July 2013 Exposing AA.
  4. We launched an indiegogo campaign and raised over $24,000 dollars in September, which enabled me to produced 25 more interviews for the film shot in a professional way.
  5. The IDA became  our fiscal sponsor enabling us to accept money and a non profit write offs and their endorsement!
  6. I hired an award winning Documentary Editor, Barry Rubinow, and he created our new 7.5 min trailer in December 2013 with all the new footage.
  7. I continued making my radio show interviewing all the top experts in the non 12 step recovered world….I have over 125,000 free downloads and listens.
  8. We created a professional looking pamphlet for people who get a DUI.
  9.  We have submitted the film for a few very important film festival/ conferences looking for finishing funds as we continue to raise awareness.

I feel a part of an online community that continues to help me to deprogram, raise awareness and help me and others to Recover from Recovery !!! LOL :))))))))))))))

Please go to ask it .com and type in “Is Alcoholics Anonymous a Cult” etc….lets get the Search Engines ROARING!!!

lightbulb picToday on MSNBC I watched a piece about what people type into “ask it .com” ….So lets do it. GO there and ask every question  you want.


for example:

Is AA a Cult?

Is AA dangerous for woman and teens?

Is AA run by a professional?

Is AA safe?

Questions for now…. try and write out AA …like this ….

type “alcoholics anonymous” and lets see what we come up with.   I just went there and typed in  ” Is Alcoholics anonymous filled with sexual predators? ” It led me to both my blogs Leaving AA and Stop13stepinaa as well as some other good anti AA sites.


Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to all ! Mele Kalikimaka- Holiday season without AA dogma …what a joy!


This is my 3rd year being gone from AA. WOW…what a relief. Last year was hard as I was still healing from my surgery, but this year is so lovely! How is your holiday season going? How many years are you gone or are you still in process of leaving?

I thank you all for your blogging and your support in every way possible! Thank you all who have supported the film.


Last Show of the Year on Blog Talk Radio SAFE RECOVERY – Today December 17th, 2013 at 4pm PST 7pm PST

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Join me in celebrating a wonderful year of healing, success with continuing on the making of my film The 13th Step. Along with  the success of being a chapter in  Gabrielle Glaser’s book  Her Best Kept Secret, Why Women Drink and How They Can Regain Control and being on Katie Couric this summer, raising the money on indie gogo so I could continue making the film with a more professional look, being accepted by the IDA to be my fiscal sponsor so I can raise funds in a nonprofit way, hiring a great editor, Barry Rubinow, to make the new trailer and see the final pieces of the puzzle coming together to finish and release the film sometime this coming 2014.

It will be my last show of the year to talk about all I learned this year including who I will promote as my favorite authors and favorite for profit Addiction treatment programs.

I also have my recommendations for nonprofit help as well. You know me….:) Thanks for all your support and blogging here.

NEW Trailer for “The 13th Step” is here!!! Please share everywhere…and thank you all for participating in our film.

Here is the 7.5 min trailer

I spent the day on a stage in Venice, CA filming some of the finest VO actors in Hollywood reading public posts written on my  blog from way back when… till recently. It was mind blowing to hear these actors speak your works …OMG the insanity that is going on in AA it abominable!!!

Many of you reached out to me with your sad tales of rape, controlling sponsors, assault and 13 stepping. I cried when I saw the new trailer for the first time yesterday.
I have spent hundreds of hours with your stories in my head , in my files and on my computer. But now you are all coming to life privately in a cinematic way, to change how the world sees AA with all of the lies and criminal activity as well as the cult aspect is and was captured today on film.

I have one more video that’s about 3 1/2 min long that has more alternatives to AA footage that I will release in January 2014.  It has been a long journey, but I do plan to release the film in spring of 2014 and to submit to film festivals worldwide.

NO ONE has EVER made an exposing critical Documentary of Alcoholics Anonymous and people like controversy film so I am sure we will find distribution.
I was surprised how many Actors were also pissed off how one sided this issue is handled to this day!

Love you…

Hi everyone…I have a new trailer ready and its it up on youtube right now. Please share and feel free to contact me if you want.
December 10, 2013

Although we are raising money again… I am really posting here for you to see the progress I have made and what the new footage looks like. Please spread the word.

This story is too controversial, untapped and never told. Hollywood loves that sh*t.

We know the truth here. Now the rest of America and the world converted to AA Bullsh*t needs to know it too!


 The 13th Step film has been awarded fiscal sponsorship through the International Documentary Association. This sponsorship has made the film eligible to receive tax deductible donations and grants to further our funding efforts.

Our first fundraising campaign through Indiegogo raised over $24,000. With those funds we have been able to hire a professional crew that includes a Producer, Director of Photography, Camera Operator, Documentary Film Editor and support staff. We are filming new footage using Canon 5D cameras.  Below is a link to the new trailer that we have created with your generous contributions.

If you wish to contribute further to our film, please follow the link below. Click on “make a donation” to pay via PayPal or credit card.


Contributions are payable to IDA and are tax-deductible to the extent permitted by law.


To send a check: make payable to IDA and send to:


3470 Wilshire Blvd suite 980

Los Angeles, CA 90010

or to

Inwood GIrl  Productions, LLC

9854 National Blvd. #311

Los Angeles, Ca 90034

( please make check payable to IDA and place “The 13th Step ” in the memo.

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I continue to receive sexual predatory stories on my blogs weekly, and am still seeking people who are willing to share their stories. If you would like to speak to me privately, please e-mail me at




The 13th Step is about the criminal and sexually predatory behavior that occurs systemically in Alcoholics Anonymous. This behavior goes unchecked by A.A’s world headquarters, despite repeated warnings from respect board members and longtime members. This behavior is exacerbated by the systematic sentencing of criminals and sex offenders to AA meetings without the knowledge of the AA members.




NBC’s LAW & ORDER SVU -DELIVERS THE TRUTH ABOUT ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS AND 13 Stepping . Tonight’s Episode Rapist Anonymous…go figure.


Well, well, well… are the writers of Law & Order SVU reading our blogs and finally getting it right and telling the truth about AA? We hope so.

Tonight as I watched, I hardly could believe my eyes and ears as Mr 13 stepper , stepped up to the plate, he hit the nail on the head for me as a guy with 10 years of sobriety, slinging AA slogans like he began AA in kindergarten and what not….

I will not spoil what goes down but I do believe you can watch this episdeo for free this week on

AND if you writers out there are reading this….thank you from all us ex steppers…AA haters!!! 🙂

Season 15, Episode 9: Rapist AnonymousNov 20, 2013Detective Amanda Rollins (Giddish) helps her friend Lena Olson (Amy Seimetz) press charges against her lover when she accuses him of rape. But Lena’s history with the suspect and her proclivity for rough sex makes the he-said she-said investigation too difficult to pursue. When the case escalates to murder, a dangerous love triangle is discovered and Rollins is forced to confess her private life on the stand. Written By Anonymous- wait a minute….are they kidding… not posting the writer of this episode….are they an ex stepper?