The 13th Step film exposing Alcoholics Anonymous
Here is some activism to change AA was the force behind her “Make AA Safer” hotline, her stop13stepinaa website and now this feature-length film.
Richardson was introduced to AA through Tom Catton (author of The Mindful Addict) back as a teenager. By 21, with three years sober, she was the “token teenage speaker” for AA. Now, looking back, she says, “I don’t think anybody who’s a teenager is an alcoholic.”
The film interviews a slew of women who have been sexually abused by men in AA as well as the family members of women, like Karla Brada, who have been murdered by AA members. Brada met Eric Allen Earl in AA. He had nowhere to go so she took him in and was dead by his hands four months later. After the fact, her family dug into his history and discovered he had 22 years of criminal activity including eight restraining orders and a stunning 52 court-orders to AA. Brada’s family are suing AA for wrongful death.
“Julie” knew a guy in the rooms of AA for three years when he invited her over for coffee at his home, only to slip a date rape drug in her tea and assault her. When Julie complained to her sponsor about the incident, she was met with “Well, what was your part?”
“Brittany,” a newcomer from Kentucky, was befriended by an old timer at her regular meeting. She was 13th stepped and relapsed as a result. With no money and nowhere to go, she went to him for help and he took her into his home, supplied her $500 a day dope habit and used her dopesickness to hold her sexually hostage.
The film highlights various upsetting stories like this, including Darlene who met and got engaged to a man in AA who later confessed to being a sexual predator, and the story of a woman whose married mother went to AA when she was young. The woman—who chose to remain anonymous and was shot in silhouette—confesses that her mother was seduced by an AA member who broke up her parents’ marriage and then proceeded to molest her for the next eight years. Numerous disturbing newspaper headlines flash across the screen reporting sexual assault or violence at the hands of AA members, including young Thomas McGuire Jr., who was murdered by his AA sponsor.
The film explains that the court is ordering people to AA (which is actually against AA’s traditions), including violent criminals and sex offenders in lieu of jail or prison time—60-80% of AA’s members are coerced by the judicial system. The rooms are “full of vulnerable people” and data shows that AA is only effective for 5-10% of people, Richardson and various experts complain. But in spite of this, it has become the main methodology for rehabs and the go-to for the courts. I adamantly do not believe that AA is the only way to get sober, nor is it the best way for everybody. I don’t think that if AA does not work for you then you are doing it wrong. (Don’t tell my sponsor.) And I agree that the courts should offer a variety of programs, including SMART recovery, HAMS, or SOS, not just AA.
The 13th Step screened and won at The Beverly Hills Film Festival in 2015. It also screened at The Cannes Film Festival Doc Corner.
Honestly I didn’t make my film about 13 Stepping or even sexual harassment which is still l happening and the #metoo movement. It has still not made its doors to AA culture, rehab or sober living I do think it will eventually.
I made the film because women were being murdered . Murdered by Court ordered violent offenders sent to AA , a place where there were no safety rules, no warnings that these men were being sent there. A place where people preached spirituality when in fact AA is just an unregulated support group. AA is also a classic place for victim blaming and old fashioned cult drone slogans.
People like to say that AA is just like any other place, a grocery store, a church. Strange thing is that no courts are ordering anyone to a grocery store , a yoga class or even church.
It would be nice if these AA members would do their own research and get honest with themselves about who is really in their meetings and that AA is not like ANYTHING else on the planet.
That AA is a Powerful Mega Institution and that we are sick and tired of the snake oil salesman approach.
Move over AA #demand choice is here.
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