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What is Deprogramming from Alcoholics Anonymous and do you want help?

What is Deprogramming from Alcoholics Anonymous and do you want help?

November 13, 2018 Posted by supportadmin_694 Uncategorized 1 Comment

 

Some people find that even after leaving AA- 20 years ago – 6 months ago – 2 years a

 

go – those “readings are st

 

ill lingering in your head as your head hits the pillow.

What is that all about anyway? Were we really brainwashed ? Many say – “No” that cant be… AA is not a cult. ” Many of us say yes, yes – it is a cult and here is why.

I too wondered why was it that people get sucked in so quickly – I think it is a many pronged factor.

  •  People are very lonely when they arrive ( their family and friends are all angry at them
    _ hence the LOVE BOMBING.
  • The readings at every meeting and the tone in which they are read are straight up brainwashing technique ( this is the use of all We’s and US not Me and I ) I will post a Through the worm hole episode to make my point.
  •  A person may be in an extremely vulnerable state. Like never before or never again will this the case perhaps.

The things people say in meetings, like : Only WE CAN HELP YOU

You will die or go insane or go to jail if you leave here.

You must come here forever, Only WE Understand you …. we are special —

Loaded language is used in AA and in all cults.  I will continue this thread adding in how I deprogrammed and how you to can be free not only from the meetings – buts its ideology.

Join us on FACEBOOK- Deprogramming from AA or any 12 step group.

There are professionals that can help too. Rachel Bernstein in a great resource-

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    July 7, 2023 at 12:04 PM

    I would also like to add to my post that after my leaving AA years ago of my own choice ,and with time I changed and no longer people please, the people pleaser in me died after I left AA. As did some other things about me ,so I was able to change myself without AA.
    And not everything I ever did pre AA or while going there came from a place pf people pleasing. I did use canabis after I left , and after some time and dureing the time I was useing it i didn’t
    people please anyone .
    It didn’t happen right after my leaving but it did happen . I was able to stop people pleasing while useing a drug.

    I have also had a lot of time off canabis since I left AA ,and as it stands today my last weed use was 4 months ago.my last alcoholic drink was one small bottle of beer on new years eve ,6 months ago. And i’m no longer depressed or in need of any medication.
    Im happy with who i am and my life as it is .im not happy ever day but most days I am
    and im not depressed of confused anymore or afraid angry or wound up like I was those years I spent in AA.
    I have lots of things and people in my life today that i’m thankfull for.

    I let go of anyone I met in AA. I no longer contact anyone there. And I never hear from them, which I am very thankfull about.
    I let go of the grudges I held to some of them. And I no longer care about there hate of me, that I was informed about from an AA old timer prior to my leaving.

    That’s there issues to fix not mine.
    So for anyone in AA or thinking about going there or leaving there .
    I would say that’s your choice its not up to me to make your choices for you.

    will you be abused there, I have no idea but it can happen
    and has happened to many people who went there.
    And It hasn’t happened to everyone who went there or is there.

    Are there people there who use and abuse other people YES .
    are there people there who don’t use and abuse YES.

    does it work YES it works for some.
    if they get it, if they have had enough, and want to do it, and commit to doing it every day for the rest of there lifes.

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